Poor People in America : Useless and Dangerous
I recently met up again with my lady-friends in our country club to discuss the situation our country is in. We came to the conclusion that our beloved country is running out of money due to all those useless people we have to take care of. They don?t contribute nothing to society as they are unemployed and poor.
All those people can do is drugs, getting pregnant or become alcoholics. My question is: Why do they get children if they don?t even have the money to care for them? This is an act of absolute irresponsibility and those women only got pregnant because they gave in to their primitive urges and hit the sheet with the first guy that comes along.
As soon as the kid is on its way they suddenly realise that they actually cannot afford it because they are poor ? and poor people should not be allowed to reproduce! They should be forbidden to do so as soon as the get unemployed and cannot find a job within a certain period of time. And if they grew up in a poor family they should be spayed or castrated right after birth, as our country does not need that kind of people. They are just a nuisance to our society by sitting on the street and begging for money.
Homless Person : Useless and Dangerous!
As far as I?m concerned this could never ever happen to me. I would never end up in the streets or get pregnant involuntarily as I am not as stupid as all those spoiled teenagers who run away from home because they don?t get there mothers complete attention or the things they see on TV or in magazine and want to buy, but cannot afford AS THEY ARE POOR! Kids doing so have nothing but themselves to blame!
Furthermore I?ve realised that poor people can do nothing but moan about their social status, but it?s their own fault that they are poor and so much less valuable to our country as they?ve chosen that kind of lifestyle. Why don?t they just get a job, earn some money and do something with their lives? But no, they prefer to do drugs and each other and keep blaming our noble country for it! If they are too weak to keep pace with time why don?t they just do the world a favour and commit suicide!
All they really do is hampering our perfect capitalistic system and exploiting it by getting Millions and Millions Dollars of unemployment benefits or welfare money ! I don?t see any reason paying for those people who are just too lazy to work! I also think the poor should be put in special areas and be forced to work for free of course, so they can make up for all the money they were getting from us!
Unfortunately those damn democrats and liberals prevent us from doing so, but the day will come when we will prevail completely and get all the money back those no-goods received and wipe clean our streets off all the pitiful & dirty faces of the poor ruining our beautiful country!!!
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Yes, and what is the Democratic solution to this problem? hand-outs and more hand-outs. It’s just madness.
I agree! I heard some strange democ-rat on the TV just now. He was bragging that the so called “UN” is providing food for 150 Million people on the globe! Can you believe this? As if this would be a good thing! The “UN” gets 65% of the money from the USA. We are paying them so that they can throw out our money for that kind of stuff? We need to get out of the UN, better today than tomorrow!
I like to pull figures out of my ass also….65% … tada
I don’t get your point “Me too”.
What is your problem?
Look up the facts on the “UN” website. I would recommend you do that BEFORE you accuse me of any wrong-doing.
All facts on STR are carefully researched.
Shelley
THE MEASURES TAKEN
The lazy are slaughtered
the world grows industrious
The ugly are slaughtered
the world grows beautiful
The foolish are slaughtered
the world grows wise
The sick are slaughtered
the world grows healthy
The sad are slaughtered
the world grows merry
The old are slaughtered
the world grows young
The enemies are slaughtered
the world grows friendly
The wicked are slaughtered
the world grows good
by Erich Fried
12% of the US population is poor (less than 2$/day)
and the USA have the more elevated percentage of poor people of the industrialised countries
To see what the US really pays to the UN: http://www.usembassy.it/pdf/other/IB86116.pdf go to page 6.
Yes! That’s the kind of article I want to read here! Pure vile and evil. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us!
hi stacy!:-D it would never happen to you? well, in that case i really recommend you to get cancer! oh, and get you a decent one, one that spreads in your body and could only be removed with fistfulls of money:-)
after that it’s “welcome to poorville” to you, stace;-)
maybe, if it happens all fast, you’ll get homeless! yey:-D^^
no address, no bankaccount, no work!
it even doesn’t need a disease’s involvement; someone sueing you for trippling over your kid is enough in that strong justice-senced coutry of yours
What about “love your next”?
I thinkg this statement missed your maxims of Christianity.
“This could never happen to me”.. Sure?
C’mon, sapere aude, one can never be sure! Immagine your business is runningt out of money (for example: Enron.. Let’s forget about the circumstances, since they are not important in this scenario) for any reason.. maybe, it is just not as cheap as another in doing the same thing (you know, survival of the fittest, social-darwinism etc.) you could not do anything about this matter of fact.
Now, you would be without a job!
Ok, you can get a new one, of course; but there will ALLWAYS [econimic theory of supply and demand] be a group of the former employees, wich will not find an equivalent one. So they get poorer, since they are payed less.
Let’s do this law of nature (or bettter of Capitalism, or even a law of God, if you like {since it is allways like that, it must be God who invented it..}) several times, and you don’t have a job anymore! Simple and plain: you can’t do ANYTHING against it, and that is why a capitalistic state needs social treatments for the less favoured.
The best template for this is called “industrialisation”
By the way, you can “resize” this matter of fact to the world, and you will find poor states as the unemployed people.
Nevertheless, I agree, that there are SOME poor people, wich are absolutely and 100% to blame for themselves. But this is NOT a majority!
Again, this article isn’t buil on a good knowledge of the subject your handling..
Marc (Capitalist, and proud of it…)
ah, sorry, forogot about sth..
it is 22%, not 65% (reduced from 25%.. by *taraaaa* Clinton!)
@STACY FULLERTON
Yeah, let?Ǭ¨?Ǭ•s imprison the poor people and make them work for no money. Then there would there be no need for the managers to hire the good old American worker, but we get all the homeless off streets. And if then there are more homeless, they all will work for free in great companies like General Motors or Microsoft. Great idea!
Maybe (you know, it’s just an hypothesis), poor people don’t want to be poor? maybe they can’t find a job because the US of A educationnal system is one of the worse in industrialised countries? maybe they can’t find jobs because your great capitalists moved most of their factories to places where they could pay people even less? and maybe, but just maybe, they drink and drugs themselves because this is the only bit of happiness that they could grasp?
I thought charity was a virtue. Apparently we don’t have the same education.
Yours in Christ,
MacWill
I dont like bums, poor is too generalized. I think that if youre not willing the work then you should be given NOTHING.
Now poor people, still work, maybe not that hard, but they still work.
I dont believe in government handouts. Ive been in some neighborhoods in south Florida where no one works. I went out there 5 days a week, and every day, i saw each and every IP (indigenous (sp?) Person) walking arround doing nothing.
I hate people who dont work for their money…
but the sterilizing of children, that goes too far. Because you dont know if the child will grow up to be a bum as well.
What we should do is feed the bums foods with chemicals that suppress sexual urges/fertility. And if that fails, free abortions (gash!)
Hey, its for the good of society right?
F’n work or get out…
“All those people can do is drugs, getting pregnant or become alcoholics.”
You forgot to mention crime here.
Shelley,
The UN is owed hundreds of millions of dollars by the USA. That is a fact check it out for yourself.
Also get used to begging as you will be doing a lot of that soon when the US goes bankrupt within the next 5 to 10 years. It will be you relying on the UN for food and aid then
what about jesus : he were poor no?
so he is a dangerous communist! thanks to pilate to kill this dangerous pedophiliac!
Jesus would love this one!
This blog must definitely be a fake!
(Well, I hope so)
I wouldn’t like to live in the brand new world you describe..
You say: “I also think the poor should be put in special areas and be forced to work for free of course”
Too late, it has already been done, “KriegGefangener Konzentrationlager”, it was called, just have to follow the sign wrotten “Arbeit macht frei”
Burn in hell
I hope, I really pray for you becoming the next US-President
Because, then everyone who has an IQ of more than 3 will emigrate to europe and the United STates will be ruined.
Hurray!
From how oorly this peice was written it is obvious that the writer cannot be older than 16 and really is clueless to the world. AGAIN I beg yuo guys stop pretending your are conservatives you are an embarressment to us REAL conservatives. Your viewpoints are not a conservative viewpoint it is a far right extremist ideology that is sicker then that far lefts. STOP! PLEASE STOP!
hmmm, sounds like you been reading up on some of Hitler’s policies! The fact that you said you were discussing this in your country club says it all! You are too sheltered to have any valid opinions of the world!
On guard stands a moral majority of ostriches!
Fascist!
Right on Stacy !!
I think a possible solution could be to keep the system as it is, except that those living on the welfare system should accept to be castrated to keep taking our taxmoney.
Then they could have the choice to have children and face their responsibilities on their own or keep living their miserable life without adding the burden of poor children.
It would take some time but on the long term, after a couple generations, the poor wouldn’t be such a burden to our society any more.
“Poor People : Useless and Dangerous”
That’s actually in the bible!
Wow, nice Grammar, Stacy Fullerton. Also, Shelley, your site has been going downhill. I want to read some good, funny articles like at the beginning of the site with the Linux articles!
Dable.
May I start by saying that for such a damn good website you really don’t allow enough characters for one’s name.
Anyway I thoroughly applaud the young lady who wrote this article, she sounds a delightful filly. Good to see some fresh thinking - indeed I only wish my own country had some more people with such backbone. Once we are rid of these spongers I have no doubt we’ll see immediate benifit.
What-ho
Keep up the Good work
You, my friend, are a sick fucker. What about all the people who worked for Enron that lost their jobs and are now poor/homeless/unemployed? Are they just lazy good for nothings? NO! It’s cause of Corprate America that they’re like that. Now, why don’t you do us all a favor and go fuvk yourself?
You’re right.
We should kill them (again).
Shelley !!! U wrote that the UN gets 65% from the USA. That’s not true. The USA isn’t paying sice 4 years now (the only country who doesen’t) They are about to get kicked out.
Ah.. a nation is to be judged how it treats it’s minorities. Long Live Merciless and Ruthless America ! Down with the weak and poor !
We’re in one of the richest countries in the world, but the minimum wage is lower than it was thirty five years ago.
There are homeless people everywhere.
This homeless guy asked me for money the other day. I was about to give it to him and then I thought he was going to use it on drugs or alcohol.
And then I thought, that’s what I’m going to use it on.
Why am I judging this poor bastard.
People love to judge homeless guys. Like if you give them money they’re just going to waste it.
Well, he lives in a box, what do you want him to do? Save it up and buy a wall unit?
Take a little run to the store for a throw rug and a CD rack? He’s homeless.
I walked behind this guy the other day.
A homeless guy asked him for money.
He looks right at the homeless guy and says why don’t you go get a job you bum.
People always say that to homeless guys like it is so easy.
This homeless guy was wearing his underwear outside his pants.
Outside his pants. I’m guessing his resume isn’t all up to date.
I’m predicting some problems during the interview process.
I’m pretty sure even McDonalds has a “underwear goes inside the pants” policy.
Not that they enforce it really strictly, but technically I’m sure it is on the books.
I have never seen anyone so intolerant and narrow-minded. People like YOU are useless and dangerous, I don’t even understand how you can have such extremist ideas.
That’s REVOLTING!!!
Again you’re putting MONEY over HUMAN BEING. USA are going to be a dictature under your coverage :\
“sterilisation” …. I may had read this in “Mein Kampf” better than on a *good* (sic) christian’s blog.
Are you silly ? Are you MAD ? Are you f****ing crazy ? Please, show ‘em the way, sterilize yourself and shot your … Er… I dunno, you got no brains neither than heart :\
You are just horrible people.
The things you say are just awful.
You should go to a reeducation camp.
Now that would be a blessing if we did get kicked out of the UN. Its nothing but a bunch of AMerican hating extortionist there anyway…..so no real loss to US if we get kicked out, it will be a time of joy and happiness.
quite brilliant - just a bit too obvious!
Haha!
I’ve had my doubts in the past about the legitimacy of this webs(h)ite, but this article really proved something to me - NO ONE in their right minds would write such a post, such a hommage to intolerance and blatant stupidity. This whole site is nothing more than a big ol’ spam, and you guys are falling for it every day.
If I’m wrong, I pray that lightning may strike your web server, and that you might wake up and realize the vast amount of therapy you need to get over which ever trauma you’re trying to process here.
Kriss, Norway
Hooray, another dipshit writing for this waste of space. I will have to say: screw you Re-pube-lickins, I’m voting Regressive.
This article, this website and its proponents are yet another proof that God does not exist, nor Jesus.
Dear Shelley, I couldn’t agree with you more on this article. I am not from the US, but I have visited the US. Your country allow these lazy people to not work and still provide them with shelter and food, so they can hurt your great country even more! In other country, such as China, these stupid people will have to work their asses off to not starve to death.
I see many people laughing when reading the posts in this blog. I understand that. It is funny actually. And even now I can’t realize this can be true. I can’t imagine real and normal people writing this. But who says they’re normal, right?
Funny. But really dangerous. It makes me wonder on freedom of speech. How could such stupid dumbasses talk in a public space? I know that anyone who has a normal (or less) IQ would laugh at this crap, but what about children or people looking for something to believe in?
Talking about this post in particular: it encourages racism (see the picture), slavery (working for free), nazism (camps), crime (castrate the poor or killing them)…
Does the writer of this post really think acting in the name of freedom?
I don’t know what you learned when you were young… I don’t know. Maybe your father raped you or something… No one can be so hateful for free.
Poverty is due to individualist pieces of shit like you. Blame yourself. And if you really believe, if you really want to pray, pray for yourself. You already live in hell, and if life after death exists, I’m sure you already have a comfortable seat right by the lord of darkness :)
I’m ashamed. I’m ashamed because I live in the same planet as you. Fortunately I’m far enough from your ideas. I hope americans will know how to protect themselves from you.
Sami from Tunisia (I’m really sure none of the writers know where it is)
ps: Sorry my english sucks.
I hope you old hags loose all your riches and end up in the gutter. It is clearly that Rich WASPs and christians have not an ounce of empathy. that’s a liberal trait.
It is clear that none of you have ever had to go to bed hungry. it’s clear that Minimum wage is a blesphemous word in your vocabulary. It is clear that Human Rights is un-American. It is clear that you have more in common with Stalin and Hitler than someone who believes in such radical ideas as “Freedom, Equality, Brotherood.”
And yes! These are lines from the French Revolution. and yes! These are lines that inspired your founding Fathers. And yes! Ido believe that you are interested in none of these. In fact, I find even your existence on my planet higly unconstitutional. I do find your existence as an insult to breathing life.
I can say: Take what you get, and give nothing back”, and it would fit right in your little world of egocentrism.
why do i even bother? Because winding freeper freaks up is one of lifes great pleasures. And you desrve it! your Liar president should be locked up in Hague, your riches should be taken away from you, you should try to live off minimum wages (that hasn’t been raized in 10 years), you should try living off the scraps I would lower myself to throw to you in the gutter.
Your way of looking at human Life just strengthen my suspision that you really are Aliens, or somewhat deeply braindamaged from birth and should be put to sleep like a flock of rabbid dogs…
Is Shelley suggesting that we should keep Abortion for poor people because they can not afford birth control pills????
That hardly sounds like the Republican agenda.
What is very clear from this article is…
1) having money doesn’t make a person smart indeed quite the opposite.
2) When this country goes completely broke because of the corruption and waste from GWB and his gang of worthless politicians there are going to be some very sorry rich pig sluts out there selling there bodies for half a big mac.
This country will go broke and it won’t be from welfare of anysort other than corporate welfare. I would suggest that to the authors of this letter to get a real clear look at the economics of the world and try to understand the real waste of money from this country. Maybe one of those children that you spit upon will be in a position to show you how to survive and maybe they will choose not to. Mark my words the end of days is not when you go someplace happy it is what happens your accepted world ceases to exist but you do not.
Stacy you are the problem in this country! It is not the poor it is the rich that are destroying our liberties, and our country. How anal of you to presume you are above poverty, or a tough break. You anger me with your ignorance of the facts. You open your mouth and just sound foolish. I suppose with your money you have never done a hard days work in your entire charmed life. Your superiority complex is scary at best. Let’s put you in a camp. Maybe you would be enlightened, but I doubt it, because people like you never get it!!! You are the enemy of humanity.
I’ll let the Bible and especially the words of our Savior speak for themselves…
Matthew 25:32-46
32All the nations will be gathered before him, and he will separate the people one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. 33He will put the sheep on his right and the goats on his left.
34″Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. 35For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’
37″Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’
40″The King will reply, ‘I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me.’
41″Then he will say to those on his left, ‘Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. 42For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, 43I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.’
44″They also will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or needing clothes or sick or in prison, and did not help you?’
45″He will reply, ‘I tell you the truth, whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me.’
46″Then they will go away to eternal punishment, but the righteous to eternal life.”
continued…
Matthew 5:3: “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Matthew 19:21: Jesus answered, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.”
Luke 6:20-21
20Looking at his disciples, He said:
“Blessed are you who are poor, for yours is the kingdom of God.
21Blessed are you who hunger now, for you will be satisfied. Blessed are you who weep now, for you will laugh.”
Luke 14:13-14:
13But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, 14and you will be blessed. Although they cannot repay you, you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.”
James 2:1-4
1My brothers, as believers in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ, don’t show favoritism. 2Suppose a man comes into your meeting wearing a gold ring and fine clothes, and a poor man in shabby clothes also comes in. 3If you show special attention to the man wearing fine clothes and say, “Here’s a good seat for you,” but say to the poor man, “You stand there” or “Sit on the floor by my feet,” 4have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts?
James 2:5-7:
5Listen, my dear brothers: Has not God chosen those who are poor in the eyes of the world to be rich in faith and to inherit the kingdom he promised those who love him? 6But you have insulted the poor. Is it not the rich who are exploiting you? Are they not the ones who are dragging you into court? 7Are they not the ones who are slandering the noble name of him to whom you belong?
..and from the OT:
Proverbs 17:5: He who mocks the poor taunts his Maker; He who rejoices at calamity will not go unpunished.
Proverbs 14:31: He who oppresses the poor taunts his Maker, But he who is gracious to the needy honors Him.
Proverbs 14:21: He who despises his neighbor sins, But happy is he who is gracious to the poor.
Proverbs 19:17: One who is gracious to a poor man lends to the LORD, And He will repay him for his good deed.
Proverbs 21:13: He who shuts his ear to the cry of the poor Will also cry himself and not be answered.
Proverbs 22:9: He who is generous will be blessed, For he gives some of his food to the poor.
Proverbs 22:16: He who oppresses the poor to make more for himself Or who gives to the rich, will only come to poverty.
Proverbs 28:27: He who gives to the poor will never want, But he who shuts his eyes will have many curses.
Proverbs 29:7: The righteous is concerned for the rights of the poor, The wicked does not understand such concern.
Proverbs 31:20: [The virtuous woman] extends her hand to the poor, And she stretches out her hands to the needy.
Isaiah 3:14-16: The LORD enters into judgment with the elders and princes of His people,
“It is you who have devoured the vineyard; The plunder of the poor is in your houses. 15″What do you mean by crushing My people And grinding the face of the poor?”
Declares the Lord GOD of hosts.
Isaiah 10:1-3
Woe to those who enact evil statutes And to those who constantly record unjust decisions, 2So as to deprive the needy of justice And rob the poor of My people of their rights, So that widows may be their spoil And that they may plunder the orphans. 3Now what will you do in the day of punishment, And in the devastation which will come from afar? To whom will you flee for help? And where will you leave your wealth?
Isaiah 58:6-8
Is this not the fast which I choose, To loosen the bonds of wickedness, To undo the bands of the yoke, And to let the oppressed go free And break every yoke? 7″Is it not to divide your bread with the hungry And bring the homeless poor into the house; When you see the naked, to cover him; And not to hide yourself from your own flesh?
“Then your light will break out like the dawn, And your recovery will speedily spring forth; And your righteousness will go before you; The glory of the LORD will be your rear guard.
Jeremiah 5:27-29
27′Like a cage full of birds, So their houses are full of deceit; Therefore they have become great and rich. 28′They are fat, they are sleek, They also excel in deeds of wickedness; They do not plead the cause, The cause of the orphan, that they may prosper; And they do not defend the rights of the poor. 29′Shall I not punish these people?’ declares the LORD, ‘On a nation such as this Shall I not avenge Myself?’
Ezekiel 16:49
“Behold, this was the guilt of your sister Sodom: she and her daughters had arrogance, abundant food and careless ease, but she did not help the poor and needy.”
Ezekiel 18:12-13
…oppresses the poor and needy, commits robbery, does not restore a pledge, but lifts up his eyes to the idols and commits abomination, 13he lends money on interest and takes increase; will he live? He will not live! He has committed all these abominations, he will surely be put to death; his blood will be on his own head.
Ezekiel 22:29-30
“The people of the land have practiced oppression and committed robbery, and they have wronged the poor and needy and have oppressed the sojourner without justice. 30″I searched for a man among them who would build up the wall and stand in the gap before Me for the land, so that I would not destroy it; but I found no one.
Daniel 4:27
‘Therefore, O king, may my advice be pleasing to you: break away now from your sins by doing righteousness and from your iniquities by showing mercy to the poor, in case there may be a prolonging of your prosperity.’
Amos 4:1
Hear this word, you cows of Bashan who are on the mountain of Samaria, Who oppress the poor, who crush the needy, Who say to your husbands, “Bring now, that we may drink!” The Lord GOD has sworn by His holiness, “Behold, the days are coming upon you When they will take you away with… fish hooks.
Amos 5:12
For I know your transgressions are many and your sins are great, You who distress the righteous and accept bribes And turn aside the poor in the gate.
Zechariah 7:9-10
“Thus has the LORD of hosts said, ‘Dispense true justice and practice kindness and compassion each to his brother;
10and do not oppress the widow or the orphan, the stranger or the poor; and do not devise evil in your hearts against one another.’”
…Now, I am interested to see whether these comments will be allowed through or whether they would be censored. If you refuse to take heed of the Word of God, and shut your heart against it, God will hold you to account. If you take heed, and consider God’s word, and follow His teachings, which I have posted here from the Bible, He will bless you.
Oops, missed a couple important ones in the NT:
Matthew 19:24: “Again I say to you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.”
1 John 3:17: But whoever has the world’s goods, and sees his brother in need and closes his heart against him, (Fhow does the love of God abide in him?
Acts 4:33-35
And with great power the apostles were giving testimony to the resurrection of the Lord Jesus, and abundant grace was upon them all. 34For there was not a needy person among them, for all who were owners of land or houses would sell them and bring the proceeds of the sales 35and lay them at the apostles’ feet, and they would be distributed to each as any had need.
James 2:15-16: If a brother or sister is without clothing and in need of daily food, 16and one of you says to them, “Go in peace, be warmed and be filled,” and yet you do not give them what is necessary for their body, what use is that?
Your blog is brilliant. Really funny, reminds me of a pice written ages ago stating that Britain would be economically better off if they started eating the children of poor people. Anyone remember who wrote that?
Nice one Shelly :)
You’re thinking of Jonathan Swift’s A Modest Proposal written in 1729. Full Title: A Modest Proposal: For Preventing the Children of Poor People in Ireland from Being a Burden to Their Parents or Country, and for Making Them Beneficial to the Publick
am in africa and i would like to share the goodwork that you are doing
Do you really think that you have the right to call people useless? Some people that live ont he streets(classified homeless) may have skills that you have never dreamt of. They could have just had bad luck. judging people based on thier apperance and what you think may be going on is WRONG. Everyone has a story and if you dont know it, dont make assumptions.
Im not disagreeing with you about the money part and the hand outs, but i do not think that we should just let these people fly in the wind, enable them, help them, educate them.
also i am one of those teenagers that you are talking about and i left because i was being abused and i am now in college… stop assuming things about people